‘I Don’t Know How I’ll Live With the Loss’: Katie Allen Remembered at Emotional Melbourne Memorial

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On: Thursday, January 29, 2026 11:40 AM

Katie Allen

The scale, solemnity, and emotion inside Melbourne’s St Paul’s Cathedral on Thursday told a story far larger than any résumé could capture. The packed memorial service for Katie Allen reflected not only the many roles she held during her life—but the profound mark she left on people across medicine, politics, research, and family life.

Every pew was filled. Mourners stood shoulder to shoulder along the cathedral walls, with many turned away after capacity was reached. It was a farewell befitting a woman whose life bridged disciplines and communities, and whose legacy transcended titles.

Allen, who died in December after a two-year battle with cholangiocarcinoma, was remembered foremost as a mother, wife, and human being of uncommon empathy—despite careers that spanned paediatrics, medical research, public policy, and federal parliament.

A Life Lived With Purpose

Allen’s husband, Malcolm, and their four children—Monty, Jemima, Arabella, and Archie—spoke openly about the gravity of their loss. Their tributes revealed a family bound by love, curiosity, and shared values, forged by a woman who lived deliberately and intensely.

“She lived with meaning—heavy, strong, bold meaning,” Arabella told the congregation. “Idleness shivered at the sight of her.”

Allen was diagnosed with a rare and aggressive cancer in late 2023, a moment that shifted her perspective irrevocably. According to those close to her, she began writing personal reflections soon after, acknowledging she had entered “a different space in the world—one where I know my life is finite.”

Despite initially keeping her diagnosis private, Allen later spoke of the overwhelming support she received once the news became public—support she said affirmed that her life had mattered.

An Extraordinary Medical and Research Career

The service opened with a tribute from Kathryn North, director of the Murdoch Children’s Research Institute, who described Allen as a woman “always seeking answers.”

North traced Allen’s journey from paediatrics into public health and medical research, highlighting a career defined by intellectual rigor and tireless curiosity. While raising young children, Allen completed a PhD and went on to publish 423 peer-reviewed papers, many of which reshaped global understanding of childhood food allergies.

Her work was cited at a rate 12 times higher than the global average in her field. She supervised more than 30 PhD students—nearly all women—and was deeply committed to mentoring the next generation of researchers.

Yet North stressed it was Allen’s humanity that lingered most.

“When asked if she was busy, she would smile and say ‘not especially’—even though it was unlikely she’d ever be less busy than at that moment,” North said. “She gave people her full attention.”

“When I think of Katie, I think of light. Of sparkle. Of colour.”

A Gathering of Many Worlds

The congregation reflected the breadth of Allen’s influence. Former colleagues from parliament sat alongside medical professionals, university leaders, students, public servants, and longtime friends.

Among those attending were former federal treasurers Peter Costello and Josh Frydenberg, former Victorian premiers Jeff Kennett and Ted Baillieu, and former chief medical officer Brendan Murphy.

Political divides were momentarily set aside, underscoring the unifying force of Allen’s life and values.

Standing Up When It Mattered

Former health minister Greg Hunt recalled meeting Allen more than 25 years earlier through her husband and later witnessing her unwavering resolve during moments of national and international crisis.

He spoke of her leadership during the COVID-19 pandemic and her advocacy for Afghan women following the fall of Kabul in 2021. As evacuation windows closed, Allen worked through the night, contacting senior ministers until visas were granted.

“She took up their case,” Hunt said. “She would not rest. She stood up when it mattered.”

Her politics, he added, were driven by conviction rather than ambition—an approach that defined her public life.

Family at the Centre

Despite her professional achievements, Allen’s children made clear that family was her greatest legacy.

Jemima likened her mother to “a really concentrated lime cordial.”

“Even a small drop of mum would fill up your cup,” she said.

Images from Allen’s life—academic milestones, family celebrations, and quiet moments—played as Unforgettable by Nat King Cole filled the cathedral. They told the story of a woman who pursued excellence without losing warmth, and achievement without ego.

A Husband’s Farewell

Malcolm’s tribute was the emotional centre of the service. He spoke of meeting Allen on Melbourne Cup Day at Flemington, sharing their first kiss beneath a tree, and immediately recognising her rare combination of intellect, energy, and moral clarity.

He described their final months together as a “quiet golden time,” marked by graduations, becoming grandparents, and moments of stillness as a family.

“I do not yet know how I will live with this loss,” he said softly.

“Thank you, Katie. Thank you for the life we shared.”

A Legacy Beyond Titles

Katie Allen’s life defied easy categorisation. She was a scientist, a policymaker, a mentor, an advocate, and above all, a mother who lived intentionally and generously.

As mourners filtered out into the Melbourne afternoon, the overwhelming sentiment was not simply grief—but gratitude. Gratitude for a life lived fully, and for a legacy that will continue shaping medicine, leadership, and compassion long after her passing.

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